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PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2007 7:54 pm 
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okay, so i love my best friend more than anything in the world and i definantly know i could never love anyone more than her. but i'm so confused. our friendship is amazing and i definantly don't want to skrew it up, so i have never told her how i completely feel. she likes this one guy anyways, so i just try to be there for her and support her through anything. but really, i wish we could be more. i am just wondering if there will be or should be a point in our lives when i should tell her how i really feel, or if i should just shut up and put my feelings aside so that our friendship is not compromised. thanks for your opinions and help. :)

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 6:38 am 
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Yikes. Well, if you tell her, and she doesn't have any feelings for you, it's definately gonna be weird afterwards. Are you gay or bi? Does she know that you are that? Do you know if she is? Because it sounded like she was into boys.

If you are sure that she is straight, I wouldn't tell her. It would just get wierd I think..

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 12:19 pm 
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yeh i agree if shes straight don't tell her...

you could in conversations if its appropriate ask whether they think girl on girl is hot or if they would do it themselves
but if shes not straight an she is bi then u could give it a try

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I can understand people saying keep it to yourself, but in this day and age most girls claim to be "bi-sexual", as in they get drunk and make out with other girls.
When your young it seems everything is be all and end all, I remember the decisions I once made... I was such a tool (laughs to self), but bottom line repressing what you truelly think and feel is a big no no, it will only end up hurting the both of you. just lay your cards on the table and drop it lightly on her.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 8:26 pm 
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i agree.. casually bring it up.. don't mention names or make it personal at that point.. just see what shes sayin' ya dig?

if shes not interested.. you have your best friend still
if shes interested.. you have your best friend.. and then some

really if you keep it impersonal ( if thats a real word), theres nothing to lose.. if she gets all freaked out.. just play it up like you arent interested.. that it was just an interesting conversation..

either way


hope it works out for ya buddy

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