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I think its anther teen problem...but i cannto with it...I am 1.64 m. and i weight [b:2fhhyw4r]65[/b:2fhhyw4r] kg. I dont mind if i am thin or not, but i hate my body, mi mind and it all.
Today i have tried on some swiming clothes, and when they were on me and i looked to the mirror, i had to turn to couldnt see me...
I cannot see my name written in my nick, or my photo anywhere...i see all the peolple in the msn with their name and their photo so much beautiful, but i always think that my name is fuckin horrible and my face is shit..

I know girls so much fatter than me and they wear skirt and girly clothes..but i cannot feel girly or beautiful..i just cannot

I have never had boyfriend, now i dont mind, but in the future maybe this is important for me, because maybe i wont want to live all my life alone...i see how my friends have boy/girlfriends, and i see how anybody is near to me..


Sorry for my bad english

Thanks for posting and help (only if you want)

I was 53 last time i weighed myself and I'm very self-conscious about it too (I'm shorter than you, by the way)

Do you like any sports?

swimming...i'll do it this summer and i will walk a lot, and probaly ill go to a gym too...

Really thanks for posting!! Really apreciatted!!

Yeah swimming is great. I'm going to swim and walk this summer too.

Shopping is great, actually, you tend to walk a lot without even noticing it.

i learned to accept myself the way i am.. its hard .. and it takes long
love yourself for what you are.. (smart, funny? or i dunno.) . just take a look on the good things.. and dont focus on what sucks

if u dont feel good about ur body do sports.. but dont only focus on losing weight ... do it cause it makes you feel good about yourself


its a LONG way to accept yourself.. and i went thru hard years myself.. but keep on working

I went through a faze like this, possibly not quite as bad though. It took a while, but now i'm alot more comfortable in my own skin.

Thanks for posting really you help me a lot :):)

what is it about your mind that you don't like?

Feeling insecure about your body is pretty normal, some of the most beautiful people I know hate the way they look.

I really don't have a whole lot I can say.
I cant stand wearing girly clothes. I can, to a point. I hate baby doll tees.
I have a friend who's is easily twice the size of me and she wears it, serious self confidence.
You really shouldn't compare yourself to other girls, because sometimes, they're going through the same kinda shit. Boyfriends come and go, that's almost a fact, I wouldn't worry about it, it happens when it happens.

I'm not much help, sorry.


oh yeah, you could always change your name? Or fall in love with the one you already have

I hate myself too...so we are 2.

do you wanna be my friend?

heyy como andas??
mira, yo pase por el mismo tema.. hace unos aсos me odiaba completmante, odiaba sacarme fotos, y no podia entender como todo el mundo ponia sus fotos en el msn.. a mi me daba vergьenza y hasta asco.
era re feo.. encima se me ocurrio cortame el pelo super corto y la gente pensaba q era unv aron.. era re triste.. pero despues de un tiempo [ y depsues de mucho dolor] aprendi a aceptarme como soy.. te digo la verdad, yo se q es un proceso dificil, pero no qeda otra.. somos lo q somos, y tenemos q vivir con eso toda la vida.. y yo creo q la vida vale la pena vivirla, no vale la pena pasarla amargado!
alguna ves intentase ir a un psicologo? te digo, yo hace 7 aсos que voy, y al principio lo odiaba, pero me ayudу bastante a aceptarme, y a entender muchas cosas.
y como dijeron aca arriba ^, practicar deporte es lo mejor q podes hacer!.. es buenoe star saludable, y si te sentis gorda [lo cual no pienso q sea asi, pero bueno] te puedo asegurar q no hay nada mas satisfactorio q terminar el dia sabiendo q hicist deporte.. capas te suene re tonto, pero a mi me pasa asi.. yo siempre fui la clase de persona que no hacia nada, y ahora que practico deportes me siento mucho mejor conmigo misma... y encima la natacion es un deporte muy lindo, y es uno d los que mas calorias quema [junto con el squash, que personalmente t lo recominedo]
con lo dl tema del novio.. no te perdes d mucho!.. sos joven todavia, y te sobra tiempo para pensar en eso.. !
yo mi primer novio serio lo tuve a los 17.. y lo anterior fue todo una perdida de tiempo! me aprece q te ahorras sufrimiento al pedo!
hayy espero q todo esto te sirva de algo! ya me siento como una anciana hablando de esta manera, pero es verdad, y recien lo estoy viendo ahora que tengo 18.
te deseo lo mejor, y si necesitas hablar o algo, no dudes en mandar un msj!

we all have things we dont like about ourselves


i used to get picked on and called fat.. so i started watching what i ate.. and lost like 13 kg.. im 1.6 m tall and weigh like i dunno around 50-55 kg now.. honestly just dont do anything unhealthy

and dress how you like you need to be comfortable

***dont worry about boys.. they are just a pain in the ass

hope that was helpful

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heyy como andas??
mira, yo pase por el mismo tema.. hace unos aсos me odiaba completmante, odiaba sacarme fotos, y no podia entender como todo el mundo ponia sus fotos en el msn.. a mi me daba vergьenza y hasta asco.
era re feo.. encima se me ocurrio cortame el pelo super corto y la gente pensaba q era unv aron.. era re triste.. pero despues de un tiempo [ y depsues de mucho dolor] aprendi a aceptarme como soy.. te digo la verdad, yo se q es un proceso dificil, pero no qeda otra.. somos lo q somos, y tenemos q vivir con eso toda la vida.. y yo creo q la vida vale la pena vivirla, no vale la pena pasarla amargado!
alguna ves intentase ir a un psicologo? te digo, yo hace 7 aсos que voy, y al principio lo odiaba, pero me ayudу bastante a aceptarme, y a entender muchas cosas.
y como dijeron aca arriba ^, practicar deporte es lo mejor q podes hacer!.. es buenoe star saludable, y si te sentis gorda [lo cual no pienso q sea asi, pero bueno] te puedo asegurar q no hay nada mas satisfactorio q terminar el dia sabiendo q hicist deporte.. capas te suene re tonto, pero a mi me pasa asi.. yo siempre fui la clase de persona que no hacia nada, y ahora que practico deportes me siento mucho mejor conmigo misma... y encima la natacion es un deporte muy lindo, y es uno d los que mas calorias quema [junto con el squash, que personalmente t lo recominedo]
con lo dl tema del novio.. no te perdes d mucho!.. sos joven todavia, y te sobra tiempo para pensar en eso.. !
yo mi primer novio serio lo tuve a los 17.. y lo anterior fue todo una perdida de tiempo! me aprece q te ahorras sufrimiento al pedo!
hayy espero q todo esto te sirva de algo! ya me siento como una anciana hablando de esta manera, pero es verdad, y recien lo estoy viendo ahora que tengo 18.
te deseo lo mejor, y si necesitas hablar o algo, no dudes en mandar un msj!
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we all have things we dont like about ourselves
i used to get picked on and called fat.. so i started watching what i ate.. and lost like 13 kg.. im 1.6 m tall and weigh like i dunno around 50-55 kg now.. honestly just dont do anything unhealthy

and dress how you like you need to be comfortable

***dont worry about boys.. they are just a pain in the ass

hope that was helpful
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[quote:lb2tjvqc]I really don't have a whole lot I can say.
I cant stand wearing girly clothes. I can, to a point. I hate baby doll tees.
I have a friend who's is easily twice the size of me and she wears it, serious self confidence.
You really shouldn't compare yourself to other girls, because sometimes, they're going through the same kinda shit. Boyfriends come and go, that's almost a fact, I wouldn't worry about it, it happens when it happens.

I'm not much help, sorry.
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Thanks for it all!!
Gracias por todo!!!!!